Trusting People with pain

What if you're not broken?

What if you're not broken?

If suffering is actually a vital part of human development - and Paul says it is - why don’t we quit beating ourselves up for experiencing it.

Maybe you don’t need someone to fix you. Maybe you need someone to walk with you through it, helping you keep your eyes on the prize.

A Word to You Non-Mothers

A Word to You Non-Mothers

For most of my life the controlling narrative has been Be Awesome. Need Nothing. Even as I dragged myself through a disastrous miscarriage, I didn't ask for help. I also scolded myself for being selfish: "Who are you to be so sad, when other people are suffering so much worse. Think about Syria!" 

But both of those are bullshit lies.